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The boy who knew too much: a child prodigy

This is the true story of scientific child prodigy, and former baby genius, Ainan Celeste Cawley, written by his father. It is the true story, too, of his gifted brothers and of all the Cawley family. I write also of child prodigy and genius in general: what it is, and how it is so often neglected in the modern world. As a society, we so often fail those we should most hope to see succeed: our gifted children and the gifted adults they become. Site Copyright: Valentine Cawley, 2006 +

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

A cat called Cow.

Until sometime last night, we had a cat called Cow. It was a black and white cat, with patches of each colour, like a cow. Hence, my kids chose that name for it. It was a young cat, perhaps 9 months old. She had an adorably sweet personality and was very warm and seemingly loving, nudging adults and children alike, as it to say hello. Of all her mother’s kittens, she was the one who liked to stay closest to her mother. This morning, my son, Fintan, 8, found her dead.

It was a bit of a shock to be told this news. You see, we have four young cats, who were dumped on our doorstep by their mother. Of all the four, Cow was by far the most charming. In fact, she was the only one that seemed to have its own true personality. The others were mainly just hungry and out for food the whole time. We had planned to give the other three away, and keep Cow. So it was unwelcome news to see Cow stretched out stiffly on the ground, upside down, with her chest exposed, as if arching in pain, her mouth open in a grimace of surprised agony.

Upon her chest, there was an oval wound, about an inch across. Something had put a hole in her chest, on the underside. Had she been bitten by an animal? Had she fallen on something sharp? It was all the more surprising to see her dead like this, since we had seen her alive only hours before.

The children stared at her unmoving body in silence, as we prepared to bury her. My wife’s father was here. He had dug a rectangular hole in the garden for Cow – a little grave. All the children stood around eyes fixed on Cow. They were unusually quiet. Cow didn’t look quite real anymore. She was completely stiff and looked like a stuffed toy – not an ex-cat, at all. The absence of life, made her look as if she had never been animate. She simply looked like an artist’s impression of a cat – and not a very convincing one at that. It is funny what death can do. It makes even the most living animal, look rather unreal. I was struck, then, by what had made Cow such an interesting cat. It was her personality – the way she moved, what she did, her seeming intentions and the general impression of warmth in her actions. All that was gone. Without her animating personality, Cow did not even look like Cow anymore. She looked like a cat shaped black and white object, with a pink hole in her chest.

We buried Cow, in silence and replaced the turf on top of her. The boys didn’t say anything. I don’t think they knew what to make of it all. This was their first direct acquaintance with death. I don’t think they have ever seen a dead mammal, or human, before. Cow had been their favourite cat. In all, I think they took it very well, though I could tell they were a bit shocked, since there had been no forewarning.

Last night, I had heard dogs barking, rather aggressively at about 3 am. Perhaps that was when Cow was attacked and died. Had the dogs come onto our property or had Cow wandered onto theirs? We shall never know. It was clear though that she had dragged herself back to her favourite spot in the garden and died near where we used to feed her. She had come home, for her final moments.

I was going to write about Cow a long time ago, because I thought her funny and endearing. I never expected the first time to write of her, would be of her early death. Reflecting on why she died, rather than any of her siblings, I think it may very well have been her colouration. The others were shades of brown and would be difficult to see at night. She was black and white and would have been easy to spot, at night. I think that which made her beautiful to look at, may also have cost her, her life.

My wife Syahidah reassured Fintan. “Cow has gone to Cow heaven to meet all the other “cows”.”

He smiled at that, finding it either a comforting or a funny thought. It wasn’t clear which.

Thank you, Cow, for being so sweet and making us all smile, at your warmth. My sons, in particular, will miss her, though my wife and I will too.

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10 Comments:

Blogger Alia said...

it is ok for young children to experience tragedy in their life (losing pets). it teaches and helps them a lot in the future.

10:20 PM  
Blogger Valentine Cawley said...

Yes, I agree, though it would have been good were it not to be. She was a pleasant cat.

I suppose that all children should learn about death, at some point. It is a lesson we all must learn - and anticipate, of course.

Thanks for your comment.

10:38 PM  
Blogger Lemni said...

I am sorry for the loss of your beloved pet. :(

6:39 AM  
Blogger Valentine Cawley said...

Thank you Lemni...much appreciated.

11:09 AM  
Blogger Anna Czarina said...

I am really sorry for the loss of your pet...
Losing a pet is really heartbreaking, and the fact that you couldn't do anything to reverse it makes it even worse...
This reminds me when a kitten I brought home from school was killed by our dogs on December,just two days after I brought her home.
I was so sad most of the time during the Christmas season.
I really appreciated the way your wife explained to your sons where Cow went, at least it will offer them peace of mind knowing that Cow is now in a better place.

2:38 PM  
Blogger Anna Czarina said...

I am really sorry for the loss of your pet...
Losing a pet is really heartbreaking, and the fact that you couldn't do anything to reverse it makes it even worse...
This reminds me when a kitten I brought home from school was killed by our dogs on December,just two days after I brought her home.
I was so sad most of the time during the Christmas season.
I really appreciated the way your wife explained to your sons where Cow went, at least it will offer them peace of mind knowing that Cow is now in a better place.

2:38 PM  
Blogger Valentine Cawley said...

Yes, the way my wife handled it was very comforting for my sons.

That you have had a similar experience re. cats and dogs, does make me wary of ever mixing the species, again, even unintentionally.

I am sorry to hear about your kitten.

Best wishes

4:11 PM  
Blogger Valentine Cawley said...

By the way, Anna Czarina, you have a very nice sounding name...very poetic.

Take care.

4:12 PM  
Blogger tearsunderstars said...

Hi Mr Cawley,

My condolences for the loss of Cow.

I used to have pet chickens. The last chicken was bitten to death by a dog and I was really very upset. I can definitely understand when you say it doesn't look quite real anymore. The chicken lay there with its eyes closed, lying on the ground, no longer running about. I really do miss it.

Regards

12:41 PM  
Blogger Valentine Cawley said...

Dear Tearsunderstars,

I think it was most probably a dog that bit Cow to death, too. There was certainly barking in the night outside. So, these dogs have much to answer for...

I am sorry about the loss of your pet, too. Animals' lives are shorter than ours, but it feels better if they are full, rather than truncated. It seems unreasonable that a short life should be shortened further still.

Take care.

8:15 PM  

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