Ainan's economy with words
Some people talk much and think little; others talk little and think much: Ainan is of the latter breed.
Some of those of you who have followed the Gifted Education Programme saga may have wondered why I wanted a recording of the meeting with the chemists. The reason is two-fold: firstly it would have been an invaluable record of Ainan's thinking at this stage; secondly I knew I wouldn't get to know much about it from him, if I didn't. You see Ainan is quite economical with words and not keen to describe his experiences.
I tried asking Ainan about the meeting.
"So what happened then?"
"We sat down." He said, with a curious finality.
"What did you speak about?"
"We just sat down." There was something about his tone that said this was going to be a short conversation - not rude but, as if he thought it unnecessary to communicate.
"What chemistry did they talk to you about?"
"Much." He leant that word such weight that it was meant to encompass the whole conversation. That was it. He didn't say anything more.
Apparently, he had said a lot in the meeting - however he said nothing about the meeting. Now, perhaps, you understand my insistence on a recording!
Labels: Ainan, chemistry conference, child prodigy, gifted education, Gifted Education Programme, quietness, reservedness, reticence
4 Comments:
Is it possible that his interviewers instructed him not talk about the meeting?
It is possible. I hadn't considered it. However, Ainan is not one to talk too much about things. He only becomes effusive when he has a scientific idea and wants to express it. On most other occasions, he is reticent. I think this quietness is quite common among the more highly gifted.
Thanks for your thought.
Why do you think that is, that the "more highly gifted" tend to be reticent?
- Kathy
Two things, Kathy.
One is the more highly gifted tend to be introverted and concerned with their own inner thoughts.
The other thing is that the more gifted ones tend to learn to be quiet because they have had negative experiences with being misunderstood in the past...over time, a quiet watchfulness is likely to develop. That is what happened to me, as a child, anyway.
Perhaps I shall post about it.
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